03. How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT?
03. Give and take!
Marriage is not rocket science! Mutual understanding clubbed with simple adjustments can give you ample happiness.
You might ask, Understanding, ok.... But adjustments?
Yes adjustment is also required for a healthy relationship.
Here's some quick "Do it yourself" tips for maintaining a healthy relationship.
Respect and encourage your spouse's talents.
Everyone has got some talent. It might be small or big...
You might be a Phd in Physics.... But it is not mandatory that your spouse should also like Physics.
She might love cooking.
There's nothing wrong in accepting her talent and encouraging her.
Infact these type of small words helps to concrete your mutual respect.
Every one has their own dreams and ambitions. Do not compel your spouse to forget their ambitions to achieve your dreams.
It's a competitive world. Each one of us grow with our own dreams.
Just because you are married doesn't mean one of you should forget your ambitions.
Sit and talk in a relaxed manner... Find out how you can accommodate both of your ambitions...
Express yourself and share your mind with your spouse.
Just as we saw in episode 1, sharing is the gateway for happiness in marriage.
Don't keep your thoughts to yourself. Share your mind and also listen to your spouse's ideas.
Before taking any major decision, sit and discuss together as a team. After all it's your family.
In marriage no individual is big and no individual is small. It's a relationship between peers.
So never try to dominate the other person.
Before taking any major decision that would affect / impact your family discuss together and take a amicable decision.
Share domestic chores... There's nothing wrong in helping your spouse now and then...
Marriage is all about sharing... You share your mind, feelings, ideas etc etc.
Then why not share chores too?
Women love men who can cook 
So cooking for your wife or sharing her work in kitchen now and then will really impress your wife.
Similarly women can share the common household chores done my men like gardening, watering the garden, buying groceries etc etc.
Marriage, not just unites two individuals but also two families. Appreciate your spouse's affection towards his / her parents and siblings just as you would expect your spouse to treat your family.
This is one thing that many of us oversee. While we expect our better-half to show affection and respect towards our family, we forget to do the same thing towards his / her family.
Even in this nuclear family era, relationships are important. Stay in touch with your spouse's family and appreciate his / her affection.
See it's very simple.
Just GIVE & TAKE.... And now you are the most romantic couple with best possible understanding
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