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01. How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT?

Introduction

We read so many stories and watch so many movies that end with a happy marriage. But does those marriages really stay as happy marriages?

Do you think everyone have a 'happily ever after…' life?

We all know the answer. It's a big NO!

Happy Couples

But why? Why can't we have the same romantic and happy life after marriage?

There are no predefined rules and regulations to lead a happy life.

In this series, let us look into aspects that we can change or mend ourselves to make our marriage life happy.

01. Talk! Talk! Talk!

What do you think is the main link that connects the dot between a husband and wife?

Love?

Care?

Trust?

Yes they all are very important but the most important thing that makes a couple bond is the communication.

No relationship can live long without good communication.

Free discussions and general chit-chat helps to unload your mind and heart with your spouse.

This also helps to improve the understanding between the couples.

So should I be able to predict what's in my spouse's mind to be a good husband or wife?

Not really!

Husband and Wife relationship is very different from other relationships. You have a very special bond with that one and only special person.

Couples

So obviously you and your spouse should be able to freely share all the good and bad things amongst yourselves.

It's the feeling of he or she is there to listen to me!

So you need not have a lengthy tiring conversation daily to show that you care.

A simple SMS asking your wife if she had Lunch…

A simple phone call asking your husband if he reached office on time…

An informal chitchat in the evening or night with your better half talking about your day…

These small things are the ones that bonds your relationship with your spouse.

If you have watched Dilwale Dulhaniya Le Jayenge, there's a scene where Parida Jalal calls Amrish Puri daily at the same time to find out if he reached the shop on time. Her younger daughter Chutki teases her for that.

But isn’t that cute? If you look closely, all the successful couples will have their own footprints like this in their relationship.

So is talking only about sharing stuff?

No, not really! You can argue too!

There's no healthy relationship without arguments.

But while arguments are good to some extent, you both should also know the limit!

If there's something bothering you, talk to your spouse!

Also be a good listener. Just as you expect your spouse to understand you, it's important that you listen to your spouse's feelings too.

There are people who just keep talking and never bother to listen. These type of one way communication will not help you in any way!

Always give and take! Listen and Silent are spelled with the same letters. Think about it!

You wouldn't believe the amount of knowledge you can gain about your better half through these nice chit chats!

It really helps you to understand the small small things that your spouse like!

I know a nice young couple, Kavitha and Kumaresh. Kavitha is from an orthodox family. She is taught to keep her likings and feelings to herself.

Couples

Kumaresh is a loving and understanding husband. He didn't compel Kavitha to change herself into a modern girl.

Instead, daily he spent quality 30 minutes with her daily. There's no specific topic that they would discuss… They would talk about their school life, college life, life before marriage…

They also used to talk about the happenings of the day!

On her birthday that came after six months of their marriage, Kumaresh surprised her with a beautiful sky blue saree. Kavitha was damn surprised not just because of the saree but also because that 'Sky blue' color is her favorite color!

Do you think Kumaresh had to hire a detective to find that to surprise his wife?

Do you think Kumaresh asked about it from his wife to find it?

No, during one of their casual talk, Kavitha mentioned about the beautiful sky color which is her favorite! Kumaresh noted it down and surprised her with his gift!

These are the small incidents that add spice to your marriage life!

It also gives you opportunity to show that you care!

You wouldn't believe what a simple, positive talk can do to relationships?

It can help you to fix up broken hearts!

So what are you waiting for? Talk to your spouse today and spice up your marriage!

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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Anamika 2015-02-08 22:57
Whats this adminji???? How can we spice up our marriage life if you delay your series like this????
If you are not updating on time, we will give you punishment ;-)
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Thenmozhi 2015-02-08 23:02
athu apadi ilai Anams. Pesite irunga, romba neram, naal pesunga-nu indirect msg taranga nama admin ;-)

elorum vendiya alavu pesiyachunu thonum pothu adutha epi post seivanga :P
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Nanthini 2015-02-06 22:24
update???
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Valli 2015-01-29 21:14
When's the next update??
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Anamika 2015-01-07 20:24
Dear Shans, Perfect topic / platform for you :-)
superb start. very nice.
Waiting to read more to spice up my life :-) :P
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01vathsala r 2015-01-04 16:50
very nice shanthi madam. (y) (y)
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Anna Sweety 2015-01-02 22:18
Shanthi mam, Meaningful topic...much valid info..good start... (y)
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Madhu_honey 2015-01-02 21:24
Title superb Shanthi mam (y) U ve stresssed tat Communication is very important...Very true mam ...It holds good for any relationships be it personal or professional..
Very nice topic.. (future la namakkum use aagumla :P )
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Sathya 2015-01-02 09:37
Do you really think talking has so much power? I doubt :o
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+1 # RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Admin 2015-01-02 20:49
Yes Sathya!
Communication is very effective not just in husband - wife relation but in all other relationships like parent - kid, siblings, employer - employeer, supplier - consumer etc. etc.

Many times we GUESS what others are thinking and assume that thats whats correct. We never think of the other person's situation or what he/she's going thro'

If we can just ask why something happ or whats bothering you 90% of issues will be resolved in the bud.

Ofcourse there are other external factors that influenze and cause more issues. Manasu rendum puthusu movie is an good example for this.

It's a challenge but we have to face it.
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Thenmozhi 2015-01-02 22:07
super reply admin :)

sirji, ithelam thevaiya :grin:
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Keerthana Selvadurai 2015-01-02 07:51
Super start (y)
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Anusha Chillzee 2015-01-02 02:00
interesting title shans :)

interesting read.
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+1 # RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Admin 2015-01-02 19:05
Anu ;-)
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Valli 2015-01-01 23:48
wow, I didn't expect this. Very nice start di ;-)
Yes talking to your spouse is very important. Many a times huge disasters can be avoided by simple discussion :)

One small suggestion, dont make it sound like the other similar books or articles. Your own style is good, just stick to that.
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Thenmozhi 2015-01-01 22:48
very nice Shans (y)
I like your examples especially DDLJ :) I love that one :D

Great start! Waiting to read more to find our how can I spice it up ;-)
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# RE: How to remove the NOT from the Nuptial kNOT? - 01Sailaja U M 2015-01-02 10:13
Very NIce Shanti mam... (y)
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